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Flash in the Pan: Wave of Emotion
Guess what? See the pretty picture linked to this post? Yep. The big blue book. It is a REAL BOOK! With pages and paper and a cover, spine and numerated pages. Flash in the Pan: Wave of Emotion (It is … Continue reading
Posted in blogging, Flash in the Pan, writing
Tagged becoming an author, Flash Fiction, Flash in the Pan, publishing, writing
4 Comments
The value of history
Since I last wrote…when was it, Sunday? Monday?Irrelevant, come to think of it. I have had an OUTPOURING of messages from people. Many on FB, comments here, emails, text messages and phone calls. And the first realization was wow…people actually … Continue reading
Posted in blogging, decision-making, Fear, identity, PhD, thank-you, writing, yoga
Tagged anxiety, historical research, history, laundry list, lived moments, outpouring, personal history, phenomenology, preserving memories, shenanigans, thankful, writing
14 Comments
Waiting to Cross the Street
Have you ever stood on the edge of a sidewalk, maybe toes dangling a little bit, wondering if now was the moment you should cross. Maybe you are wondering if you should dodge and weave traffic; taking a risk to … Continue reading
Posted in Fear, writing
Tagged becoming a writer, Cheryl Strayed, failure, fear, writing
12 Comments
Is this a fight worth fighting?
I’ve spent a lot of time in the Candy Jar and on the yoga mat this last year deconstructing my life. Perhaps it should be considered construction as I started to write once everything I knew shattered. But, really…to rebuild, … Continue reading
Posted in divorce, moving forward, writing, yoga
Tagged control, divorce, divorce court, relationships, self-contol, seperation, writing, Yoga
6 Comments
Fearful of Thinking, Afraid to Write
Today I was informed by a surely brilliant douche bag (umm,I apparently don’t take criticism well) that my writing was “abysmal.” And my thoughts are not well developed. And not original. Well. Let’s see. Not original. That is true. Well. … Continue reading
I’ve Been Sprinkled With Fairy Blog Dust
The Candy Jar has been blessed with a fine veil of Fairy Dust. And not just any dust, mind you (although, admittedly, I haven’t posted much lately…there might be a little bit of grit in the corners), but the magical, … Continue reading
Posted in blogging, decision-making, moving forward, writing
Tagged blogging, fairy blog mother, writing
4 Comments
The Broccoli Is On The Floor
I do this ALL the time. The glutton in me puts so MUCH food on my plate, something falls off. The broccoli hits the floor. Leaving another mess for me to clean up…eventually. And I’ve done it again. And I … Continue reading
Posted in blogging, identity, PhD, writing
Tagged busy, full plate, making time, PhD, prioritizing, teaching, writing
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Stupid New Year’s Eve
I’ll posit this post by saying that I really hate New Year’s Eve. The worst days of my life have all basically culminated on New Year’s Eve. And as someone who truly enjoys a good exaggeration, I don’t even get … Continue reading
Posted in looking back, moving forward, New Beginnings
Tagged miscarriage, New Years, New York, writing
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A Practice in Self-Reflection
I thought I needed to post this sooner, rather than later…but it seems something more important comes up that is taking over precious space in my little brain that I choose to write about instead. And, it is really poorly … Continue reading
Posted in blogging, looking back, moving forward, writing
Tagged self-reflection, writing
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I think someone broke the code
Is there a “bloggers” code? You know, something like the “man code”? Or, maybe what I’m thinking is more like the “you know the blogger, don’t make fun of what they said, in a ‘I’m making fun of you’ code” … Continue reading




