Category Archives: decision-making

Choices Decisions and All that Comes With

Posted on May 5, 2013 by

“One of the hardest decisions you’ll ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or to try harder” Remember that saying? Or are at least familiar with something close to it? This is an idea that has been … Continue reading →

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Where’s the Infamous Fine Line

Posted on February 19, 2013 by

When ever I put the kids to bed, I always have these calm moments of thought that slip effortlessly through the nooks and crannies of my mind.  Sometimes, they come and zip through before I have a chance to hold … Continue reading →

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The value of history

Posted on February 14, 2013 by

Since I last wrote…when was it, Sunday?  Monday?Irrelevant, come to think of it. I have had an OUTPOURING of messages from people. Many on FB, comments here, emails, text messages and phone calls. And the first realization was wow…people actually … Continue reading →

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What Would Candy Do

Posted on October 30, 2012 by

So – There has been a whole heck of a lot of talk buzzing around the Candy Jar of late surrounding the idea of selling sex for a living. It started as a play on words. And then turned into … Continue reading →

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Business Planning: The Candy Jar

Posted on October 19, 2012 by

After having received bill in the mail today that made me vomit a little in my mouth and then make my blood pressure rise to the point of “holy shit I can’t really see out my left eye” anymore angry, … Continue reading →

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P.S.

Posted on September 27, 2012 by

To all my readers who do not like what I write and like to take what I say literally and make mashed potatoes out of a 5-course meal..well, this one is for you. I am really not going to become … Continue reading →

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A Moment Frozen in Time

Posted on September 13, 2012 by

Do you ever have those moments where life freezes? You know what I mean. The world feels like it just STOPPED. And in your brain, as everything else surrounding you has turned to marble, you think. Wow. My life will … Continue reading →

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Don’t Bitch…

Posted on August 18, 2012 by

I’m in an odd emotional place lately. I’m not quite sure why…and it could just be that my panties are in a bunch, I’m stressed, exhausted, annoyed or a combination of all of the above. But, my tolerance and empathy … Continue reading →

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Beggers Can’t Be Choosers

Posted on August 5, 2012 by

We’ve all heard the cliche. You know the one, “Beggars can’t be choosers” And I’ve been thinking about this for a hot minute. The other day I was looking for a new preschool for my kids and someone told me … Continue reading →

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I’ve Been Sprinkled With Fairy Blog Dust

Posted on March 18, 2012 by

The Candy Jar has been blessed with a fine veil of Fairy Dust. And not just any dust, mind you (although, admittedly, I haven’t posted much lately…there might be a little bit of grit in the corners), but the magical, … Continue reading →

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